What makes you the most Upset.

May 19th, 2005, 11:11 PM

Not sure i have seen this posted before. But what makes you the most upset.
Being lied to, lied on, or lied about.
I've always had a motto. I'd rather you smack my face than lie to me, and heck i'll tell the truth, even if it makes most mad.
I won't get people in trouble over lies, but i can't stand them, lies that is. To me they are worse than just doing the deed.
Heck i know people who will do things and not care to say, heck yeah i did it.
Me i got more respect for them, than those who go about lying on others, or about themselves.
I mean heck i'll be the first to admit, im not perfect, probably never will be, but heck, i'll tell the truth or what i know of it, like me or hate me.
I try not to cause others problems, but when the things mentioned above get into your life.
You have to deal with it. Just thought i'd get opinions.
Just a idea to see what people think.

**imported_elp6n** · May 19th, 2005, 11:14 PM

I'm sure I could make a list, but for starters:

Idiots.
I define an idiot as a know-it-all wannabe, won't listen, holier-than-thou, stupid person. Having to deal with quite a few of those these days.

And seeing loved ones upset, that's extremely upsetting to me.

**Unchained** · May 19th, 2005, 11:17 PM

Fair-weather friends. Friends that you have walked down the long, hard road with, always been there for, but when things get tough, they forget you, and you realize that you were just being used all along.

**Craes** · May 19th, 2005, 11:48 PM

also those friends who have concerns/problems for months and months, never say anything about it, then assume you have a clue what is going on when the stuff hits the fan.

**Unchained** · May 19th, 2005, 11:55 PM

Or they immediately judge you, knowing there were problems, having had several discussions over the years. The friend may not have known how bad it was, but they may have just heard one side as well. You never know what a situation is unless you are walking in their shoes. The bottom line being that we all answer to God and him only. We do not answer to anyone else.

**Craes** · May 19th, 2005, 11:19 PM

I agree with you there elp6n, seeing the ones you care about upset is hard to deal with. Even more so when there is nothing you can do to help. You have to sit back and the let cards fall where they may, deal with it as it comes and do what you can to help, even if it limited, even then it is upsetting that your hands are tied.

**imported_elp6n** · May 19th, 2005, 11:22 PM

Indeed. Some things you just can't have control over no matter how much you want them to go another direction - things that seem harsh, but in the end, were meant to be.

And sometimes, our involvement/interference causes more harm than good.

**Rocky** · May 19th, 2005, 11:32 PM

lying....... only thing that bothers me. i cant stand lying. and i cant stand being called a liar.

**Rocky** · May 19th, 2005, 11:40 PM

another thing, seeing all this crap on the news about kids being abused. I saw a woman beating a kid (im a firm believer in being spanked i know the difference) in the bathroom at the mall, yes, it was so bad i walked into the ladies bathroom and told the biotch she needed to quit her crap. She had the kids mouth bleeding and bruises all up and down its legs. this kid was like MAYBE 2 at the oldest. I reported her to security. i wish i could have beaten her like she beat that kid though. it was ridiculous.

**Craes** · May 19th, 2005, 11:35 PM

Yeah when people get involved many times it can cause more harm than good, even though what they think at the time is what they feel as being right, or even done in heat of some emotion.

Open lines of communication are very important, when that shuts down and you don't talk to anyone, or when all you hear it through other people makes it hard.